The smaller churches like yours are ok I’m sure for the most part its the ones that are part of a parent churches that give me problems.
I won’t name names but at one time I was attending a church that was part of a parent church and that whole scheme, power structure etc. and so, the Pastor was counseling a woman and as you guessed they started having an affair, both married. Now, no telling how long this mess had been going on and how long the elders were addressing the issue but the guy was there preaching on a Sunday and at some point during the week, he and the elders etc. decided he, his wife and family would just skip town and not have to face the congregation etc. And then come to find out, the church paid the guy a severance package.