You should always go to other people's funerals; otherwise they won't come to yours.
~~~~~~~~~ Lawrence Peter Berra, aka "Yogi"
All through our lives, we make all sorts of attachments, many of which we will eventually lose. Some of those "losses" are by design. We raise our children, for example, to one day become responsible adults, yet we find ourselves longing for the wonders of their childhood. Other losses are not so easily accepted. In our 20s and 30s, we attend lots of weddings and related activities (the dreaded couples' shower) but as we age, we begin to face the reality of death. We lose a best friend, a favorite grandparent, our own parents, and we begin to wonder why we let our hearts get so wrapped up in love in the first place.
Holding onto our hearts, refusing to give love to others, will not save us pain. When we submit to life, it offers a changing kaleidoscope of experiences. Those include the pain of loss, but there is peace in learning to live fully in every season, every experience. Billy Graham's wife requested that when she died, her gravestone bear the words "End of construction. Thank you for your patience." She recognized that her life---and ours too by the way---was at all times a work in progress, shaped by joys and pains, gains and losses.
For today, God, help us to embrace this life fully, and by Your Grace to accept its changes and challenges.
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Hebrews 13:8
In loving memory of Allen Jones, who made us glad we had room for him in our hearts.