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Ketch's 10 Thoughts From the Weekend (Thinking a lot about Derrian Brown...)

About fifteen years ago, in an introspective time, I offered to my wife the notion that I could take her dying way better that one of our four children (no grandkids at the time). We had had most of a life at least but the kids were just starting their adulthood and etc. etc. We were just sitting in the living room watching something on the tube and in response she gave me the weirdest, almost putout look. "Well...okay" the response. The evening went on. Nothing more to it. Then she died, after a 15 month battle, at 60, of pancreatic cancer. If what I said is a true assessment, then the prospect in reality, much less the actuality, of one of my children dying, is beyond grotesque and abhorrent. Unimaginable. I have something to measure that idea by now, and I don't wish that on anyone, even the worst. It occurs of course, but until you've experienced the death of a child, or your spouse of 37 years, just be aware that your imagination can't take you to that place.
Man, I wasn't prepared for this post. That was haunting.
 
"Back in 2001, the passing of Pittman was a crusher for me on a personal level. While we weren't best friends or anything, I had covered him closely when he was a high school prospect and I was a reporter working at KEYE-TV, while also maintaining a friendship when he arrived at Texas. When it occurred, I was only able to see it through the prism of a young person losing a friend. Try as I might, I could never understand what Pittman's father felt in that moment because some things you can't know until you're a parent."

I think about Cole Pittman every time I drive from Palestine to Austin for a Longhorn home football game. When I see the Sanderson Farm feed silos on US 79 near Easterly, Texas, I know it's time to look to the right, as the road curves to the left, to see the memorial cross marking the spot where his car went straight when it should have turned. A promising young life snuffed out at age 21. Kids dying young always hit me hard. I can't imagine the pain of the parents...
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Yes. The worst hour of my life was the two minutes of sheer terror we lost track of our young daughter at the beach. The squirt was walking up the stairs back to the beach house all on her own. Still makes me nauseous to think about it to this day, even as she’s now a parent herself.
I don't even want to think about it.
 
More prayers for the Brown family.

I really wish my dog would do that. :p We had snow here a little over a year ago, just before Christmas. When I got home from work I tried to take her outside to play. She took one look at that snow and turned around and ran back inside. =)roll=)roll=)roll=)roll
Yeah, sounds like my dog Bradie. She ain't about that life. :)
 
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@Ketchum What does Texas do at RB next year? Do they look for a transfer? Does this help get the big fish next year? Does it move an Ath to RB?
I think it means we'll definitely see Whittington take snaps and it practically screams to Zach Evans, "PICK US, WE NEED YOU!"
 
You didn't remember Freddie Joe Steinmark? Or, was that before your time? How old are you again?
I remember Steinmark. It was roughly 25 years before I started covering the team, which is the time frame I discussed.

Do YOU remember Steinmark?;)
 
Of course I respect the Brown's privacy and hope the kid gets better. But what I find strange is that you wrote an 11+ paragraph piece saying how bad you feel about him and his family and we have no clue whats ailing him, but you do.
I'm really not comfortable speaking about the things we've heard behind the scenes. Off that you found it strange, but no one else has remarked as much in three-Plus pages.
 
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Sonny Dykes was on the radio talking about his time with Jared Goff.

But really interested me was his talking about the "TRANSFER PORTAL".

He said 1800 kids were in the portal! Think of that. 1800 kids! There are only 130 teams or so... It's ridiculous.... Where are they going to go?
There are more than 130 teams in the portal.
 
I can't believe no one has commented on Rog's breaker.
 
My little brother died unexpectedly at age 27, nine years ago. While the pain and heartbreak I felt at the time was crippling, it was truly horrifying watching my parents in such intense pain.
 
I'm really not comfortable speaking about the things we've heard behind the scenes. Off that you found it strange, but no one else has remarked as much in three-Plus pages.

Entitlement you know. And I don't blame you for not wanting to talk about the things you hear. Information sometimes is not accurate or simply shouldn't be released.

You wrote how you felt about Derrien that is what matters and it was very good writing.
 
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Did you just quote Sheryl Crow?

Cat Stevens, Rod Stewart, Sheryl Crow......IMHO all a bit better than Katy Perry

Just messing with you but I think U2 and Bruno should be in the top5.

When Bono opened his jacket to show the flag as The Edge plays the rif from "Where The Streets Have No Name" after listing the names of all the fallen.....I just can't see how that is not in anybody's top 3 if not number 1.
 
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My little brother died unexpectedly at age 27, nine years ago. While the pain and heartbreak I felt at the time was crippling, it was truly horrifying watching my parents in such intense pain.

When you lose a child the pain and the grief and so many other emotions simply run wild...... and the recovery can be difficult.

For some people it never happens the clock stops for them.


There are those who say best safe that faith gets them through a lot of things and to be honest it does. However there are times when you wonder you wonder where that faith is.

HornyOwl........ years ago my mother who is an Eastern Star went to the National Convention that year was in Washington DC: I believe it was 2007 my brother was overseas and I was in California and my mom was traveling.

Anyway between the meetings and The Business the lodge does at the conventions you have tours and one of the tours takes you to the Lincoln Memorial and if you've ever been to the Lincoln Memorial you know what sits at the foot of the Lincoln Memorial if you took out go down the steps and turn to your right.

The Vietnam Veterans Memorial AKA The Wall........ my father has stood at that wall my brothers have stood at that wall and I have stood at that wall....... and we have looked at the names and one in particular.

My mother never stood at that wall she didn't know if she had the strength or Everwood but that day she was on the tour and she was with a bunch of her friends all black ladies all in their sixties seventies and their eighties and when they stopped there my mom got off and went to the Lincoln Memorial and she looked at that statue of Abraham Lincoln.

She sat on the bench and two of her friends was sitting next to her and she turned to one of them and said help me walk down there.

They did and they held her hands all the way there to the panel with my brother's name is on: according to them my mother just stood there with the tears running down her cheeks and she kept rubbing my brother name she didn't say anything she just kept touching it.

But at times there aren't words for moments like that.

One of the park volunteers came by and saw her and " Ma'am.....wait right here" he came back with a piece of paper and a envelope.....then he did a rubbing of my brother's name and gave it to my mother right then and there.

She has that rubbing to this day in her sewing room and it has helped her heal.
 
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Cat Stevens, Rod Stewart, Sheryl Crow......IMHO all a bit better than Katy Perry

Just messing with you but I think U2 and Bruno should be in the top5.

When Bono opened his jacket to show the flag as The Edge plays the rif from "Where The Streets Have No Name" after listing the names of all the fallen.....I just can't see how that is not in anybody's top 3 if not number 1.
Fair enough.
 
Not sure this team wins 4 of its last 5 at home. RU and KSU are rolling. ISU is rock solid. And lord knows we have it in us to f*ck up either Okie Lite or TCU.
 
Not sure this team wins 4 of its last 5 at home. RU and KSU are rolling. ISU is rock solid. And lord knows we have it in us to f*ck up either Okie Lite or TCU.
No doubt, that's very possible.
 
Being a parent has been the best part of my life and the scariest. Love, joy, fear, and anxiety are all part of the deal, I think. I pray for the Brown's as I cannot imagine what they have been through in the last few days.
One of your best, Ketch.
 
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