Ok Astro--
Few things we need to know.
1. Are you OK?
2. What happened?
3. How's your hand and wrist strength? Can you still open pickle jars with ease? If not, you need to go with something that is easy to chamber.... unless you're going to walk around with a round chambered.
The S&W 380 EZ is the easiest weapon to charge that I've ever picked up. You can rack that thing on your cheek. Literally. Plus, 380 bullet tech has become VERY nasty. Those rounds will fvck someone up regardless of where you hit them.
You need to consider a few things:
A. Weapon size.
B. Ease of use.
C. Safety or no safety.
D. Stopping power.
E. Accuracy (should be #1)
The catch all is the Glock 26. 10 rounds and 1 in the pipe.
Thanks Clob-To answer your questions first-
Yes, we are good. It was scary. Adrenaline didn't come down for a couple hours.
What happened? Here is the text I sent to neighbors right after it happened:
"Hey guys there is an African American going door to door and he handed my a plastic flyer. I asked if he was selling magazines. He said no, it's a contest. I said no thank you and tried to hand it back to him, he wouldn't take it. I tried 2 more times and he refused to take it back. I then placed it at his feet. My dogs are barking crazy. I then tried to close my door. He then put his foot in my door and wouldn't allow me to close it. I said I would call the police and he called me and my dog a bitch and still didn't remove his foot. I opened the door wide and said get him Bruce. Bruce cowards because he thought I was yelling at him. Heads up. Don't answer your door."
We got a picture of him down the street getting into a suv, it had no front plate and back plate was out of state. Another neighbor said he saw an suv dropping off two guys at the front of the neighborhood. It was a scam they were running. We called 911 and reported it. My wife went to a retired APD house and he said to call 911 back and tell them the make of the car. They said they had been receiving multiple calls about it and sending a squad car out. The neighborhood FB page also was getting hit with others experiencing the same.
Question #3: My wrist are good. Left hand good, because, well, you know, years of experience
. Right wrist is good as I was a state high school tennis player. I'm not as old as you may think (turn 60 this year).
I have a brother in law who lives 2 miles from me and he is a gun enthusiast. He's got an arsenal. Single doctor, never been married so has income to collect. I went to Academy and reviewed their product. I was somewhat overwhelmed so went by his house for a lesson on what I should get. He showed me a .45 and I asked about just a .22. He said that would hurt a person, but not stop them unless a shot to basically the head. He recommended a 45 or a 9mm.
Next weekend we are going back to Academy to find something both the wife and me can handle and start shooting lessons at a local range.
Like Etlong mentioned, he also said it comes down to "muscle memory", so there will be much time on that.